Being Miserable or Motivated

“Be miserable. Or motivate yourself. Whatever has to be done, it’s always your choice” by Dr. Wayne W. Dyer. 

A lot of circumstances can make you upset. When you find yourself in the midst of them you have two choices: stay unhappy or inspire yourself to go forward. It is your choice! A lot of people find themselves in very similar situations, yet some choose to complain, feel sorry for themselves and be angry against God and others decide to find something positive about those situations and encourage themselves to move forward, because they believe that any cloud has a silver lining.

Your beliefs shape you

“So often we're seduced into believing that events control our lives and that our environment has shaped who we are today. No greater lie was ever told. It's not the events of our lives that shape us, but our beliefs as to what those events mean” by Anthony Robbins. 

We like blaming others for things that happen to us and bad circumstance in our lives. People often blame God, parents, school, education and you name it what else for bad luck in their lives. However, they fail to realize that they are really responsible for whatever takes place in their lives. Their beliefs regarding those outside events and people (close or distant) are the real causes of their problems. Change your beliefs and you will change yourself. This is how happiness or unhappiness comes and leaves us.