“So often we're seduced into believing that
events control our lives and that our environment has shaped who we are today.
No greater lie was ever told. It's not the events of our lives that shape us,
but our beliefs as to what those events mean” by Anthony Robbins.
We like blaming
others for things that happen to us and bad circumstance in our lives. People often
blame God, parents, school, education and you name it what else for bad luck in
their lives. However, they fail to realize that they are really responsible for
whatever takes place in their lives. Their beliefs regarding those outside
events and people (close or distant) are the real causes of their problems.
Change your beliefs and you will change yourself. This is how happiness or
unhappiness comes and leaves us.